By Halima
At 80, a retired Air Force medical officer turned a quiet subject into a loud act of love. The President of Steron Group put dignity into the hands of girls in Wasa and Takushara.
The most important things, Group Captain Rakiya Omar (Rtd) told the gathering, are often spoken softly. A mother’s prayer. A teacher’s patience. A girl’s quiet hope that tomorrow will be kinder than today.
It was a fitting place to begin. On Sunday, 4 October 2026, at Wasa IDP Camp and in the neighbouring communities of Wasa and Takushara in Abuja Capital Territory, one of the quietest subjects in any society, the one girls are taught to whisper about, to hide and to endure alone, was spoken about aloud. It was spoken about with warmth, without apology, and with a gift in hand.
By the end of the day, 1,000 reusable sanitary pads had been placed in the hands of girls and young women: 500 at the camp, and 500 across the Wasa and Takushara communities. Each pad was small. Together, they said something very large.
The girl in the speech
Group Captain Omar asked her audience of women leaders, teachers, volunteers and girls, to picture someone. A girl of 12, 14 or 16 years. She has dreams, “as wide as the sky over Abuja”. She wants to sit in her classroom, raise her hand and answer the question. But once every month, her body does what the body of every woman has done “since the first sunrise”, and she is told to be quiet, to hide, to stay home.
“She is made to feel,” the President said, “that something natural is something shameful.”
Many girls across Africa will recognise her, because she is them. Period poverty, the lack of money, supplies or safe information to manage menstruation with dignity, seldom makes headlines. It does not arrive with noise. It arrives as an empty desk, a missed lesson, a silence at home carried month after month by girls who have done nothing more than grow up. For girls who have also lost homes and routines, as many in a camp for displaced people have, the weight can be heavier still.
“There is no shame in being a girl.”
Her answer was tender and unwavering. There is no shame, she said, in “the rhythm of the moon that lives inside you”. It is not a weakness. It is the sign of a body made to carry life, to nurture it, and to bring it into the world. Every great doctor, teacher, mother and leader the nation has known, she reminded them, came into the world through that same gift.
A woman of the Corps
The message was gentle, but the messenger carried decades of authority. Group Captain Omar spent many years in the Medical Corps of the Nigerian Air Force. She wore the uniform, she told the gathering, but her real work was always the same: to stand beside someone on the hardest day of their life and tell them, without a single word, that they were not alone.
In the wards, she learnt that a bandage is not only cloth, and a medicine is not only a dose. “Sometimes the strongest medicine is dignity.”
That conviction became the thread running through her keynote: “A woman who is treated with dignity heals faster. A girl who is treated with dignity grows taller. A community that guards the dignity of its daughters rises as one.”
At 80, she has not retired from service. She has simply changed its form. The Corps had a saying, “Service comes before self”, and she carries it still. It, “does not leave a woman when she takes off her uniform”, she said. “It only changes shape.” Today, service looks like “a sanitary pad placed gently in the hand of a girl, and a word of truth spoken kindly beside it.”
Not charity. A promise.
The STERON Dignity Project focuses on menstrual health, hygiene and economic empowerment, and it is led through the Steron Community Development Foundation (SCDF), which she co-founded and leads as president.
She is particular about one distinction. “The STERON Dignity Project is not charity,” she said. “It is a promise.” A promise that no girl will miss her lessons for lack of a simple pad. That no girl will lower her eyes in embarrassment. That no girl will ever be asked to choose between her education and her dignity.
Every one of the 1,000 pads shared was reusable, made to be washed and used again, so that protection does not have to be bought afresh every month. For a family stretching every naira across many needs, that matters. It can be the difference between a girl staying home and a girl staying in class.
A son who stands behind her
Every great initiative has someone at the front. Many also have someone quietly holding the door. Here, that person is her son, Abubakar Sadiq Omar, mni, Managing Director of Steron Group.
He is, quite simply, and a strong “He for She”: a man who understands that the dignity of women and girls is not a women’s only issue, but a human one. He supported his mother massively in this project, giving it the full weight of his backing, and it showed.
It is a pattern in Steron’s work with its host communities. In August, he personally planted 20 of the 100 seedlings in the Befriend a Tree exercise at Wasa and Takushara. From trees in August to pads in October, the same conviction runs through both: that a company’s responsibility does not end where its operations do, and that those who host its work deserve to be cared for.
There is something quietly moving in the picture: a woman of 80 building a promise for girls, and her son making sure the promise can be kept. A mother and a son, decades apart in life, but united by the belief the president put into words herself: “humanity is measured by how we treat the ones who have the least voice.”
To the girls, and to the rest of us
Her speech was not only for the girls, though they were its heart. “To the girls here today,” she said, “you are not forgotten. Whatever you have lost, whatever you have been through, your worth has never been in question. You are a daughter of this land, and this land owes you its care.”
She also left a stern message for the mothers, the elders, the leaders and the men present:. “You are the walls that shelter these daughters. Speak to them openly. Teach them without shame. Stand behind them when the world is slow to understand.”
“If we honour our girls, we honour ourselves. If we protect their dignity, we protect the future.”
She thanked her team at the Steron Community Development Foundation, the partners, Dr Ramatu Dikko and every volunteer who gave their time. “You have made a promise real,” she told them. And she closed with a prayer: Allah should bless every girl there with health, with courage and with a future as bright as her smile.
“Let a girl in Wasa, a girl in Takushara, and a girl in this camp know,” she said, “that Nigeria has not looked away.”
On 4 October, 1000 times over, in a small and gentle act, the girls were told exactly that. And that message was delivered softly. The project was part of Steron’s End Poverty Project.